作者: stephentrade 发表日期: 2007-11-10
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母亲节快要到了,突然想写写与母亲有关的一些事,可是,细细想来,居然找不出什么特别的事来写,生活本就如此平淡,我们都是平凡的人,所以,也没有什么事可写.因为工作的原因,离家在外,几分心酸,几分无奈. X?SLYm@v
随手写写与妈妈之间的几件小事吧,献给妈妈,祝她节日快乐. yb-/_{Y
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小时候脾气很倔,也很调皮,印象最深的,妈妈老是念叨我的一句话是:“本来你生下来就是一个男孩子的,结果一不小心变成了女孩子."也许正是这样的性格始然,无法理解妈妈的用心良苦.被妈妈威逼着做家务,被威逼着要写完了成堆成堆的作业才能出去玩.做作业,本是无可厚非,学习嘛,当然得做作业,学生嘛,当然是做完了作业才能出去玩.可是,说到做家务,真是头大,当刚刚六,七岁时就得学着洗碗,扫地,整理房间,八岁时,就得学着洗自己的衣服,时逢大人们忙时还得帮他们洗.虽然此家务事都有姐姐帮着分担,可这样,让成更觉得压力大.姐姐心细,什么都做得井井有条,干干净净,而我呢,性格像男孩子,从未有一件事做好的,马马虎虎,以致于妈妈老是说我扫过的地像没扫的一样,洗衣服从来不敢把白色的,颜色亮丽一点的衣服给我洗.虽是高兴不用那么辛苦地洗白色的衣服,可着实自尊心受损,因此总是顶嘴,可现在回头想想,要不是那时妈妈“威逼"着做家务,如今自己也不可能把自己照顾得这么好. S%7%@Qs"%
十五/六岁时,整天都觉得父母和自己没有共同语言,无法明白我们的心理.在青少年成长时期,总觉得妈妈对自己的关心不够,可是妈妈问起来时,又觉得她与我有代沟,无法沟通,总是冷冰冰一句话回绝:"你不懂的." trg&^{D<
随着时间的推移,随着知识的增多,越来越来越可以理解妈妈,可以理解她的严厉,可以理解她被女儿关在心门外的心情,所以,当姐姐与妈妈吵架时,我总会劝姐姐站在妈妈的角度想一想,并且告诉她,父母做的每一项决定都是为了你好,只是她的方式可能与我们所期待的不一样. h<FEe~
在母亲节前夕,乱七八糟地写上几句,为了告诉妈妈,我爱她,虽然我从来不曾说出口, 但是,请相信,没有说出口并不代表我不爱您.有些爱是放在心里的. 'p4b8:X
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Ps.希望多年以后,当妈妈年老的时候,我们围绕在她的身边,然后她骄傲地看着我们几个说:"我这一生最大的幸福是拥有你们姐弟几个." Op ;){JT
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Mother's Day is coming, and I want to write down some things about my mother. But I found that there is no special thing to write between mother and I. Live is like a cup of water, has no special thing happened. We are all the common people. J!* Pg<
Writing some small things between mother and I to send to her, wish her happy Mothers' Day. 6|{uZNz
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When I was little, I was so stubborn and so naughty. At that time, my mother always said to me:" Originally, you should be a boy, but God made a mistake to make you be a girl." Maybe, my character decided I couldn't understand my mother fully when I was little. Mother asked me to do the housework, couldn't go out to have fun with my buddies until I finished my homework. Okay, did the homework is necessary since I was studying, couldn't go out till finished the homework since I was a student. But when some mentioned the housework, headache, headache, this was the only feeling I had. I needed to try to do the housework, such as wash dishes, clean the house when I was only six or seven years old. I needed try to wash the clothes when I was eight years old, if my parents were busy, then I needed to wash their clothes as well. Even I did the housework with my elder sister, but I felt I had more press for this since my elder sister was a very careful girl; she could do everything very well. But for me, I was so careless, like a boy, so I couldn't do anything as good as my elder sister. So as to my mother didn't allow me to wash the white color clothes and colorful clothes. Yes, I was happy that I needn't wash these clothes, but my proper pride wa* ***. So that, I didn't do what my mother asked, just did what I wanted to do. Now when I remind these things, I think if my mother didn't asked me to do the housework at that time, and I am sure now I couldn't take care of myself. -QP&A >]7
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When I was fifteen or sixteen years old, I felt that parents had no the same idea with me, and couldn't understand what I thought in my mind. At that age, I always thought that mother didn't care me, but when mother asked me something, I felt we had generation gap, couldn't communication, so I answered her:" Nothing, you can't understand what I am thinking. |cq%eN
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Time flies, and I grown up, I am knowing more and more, and I can understand why mother was so severe, I can understand her mood when she is closed out from her daughter's mind. So now sometimes when my elder sister quarrels with mother, I asked her to think the thing at mother's foot, and in their mind, they decide the things for you are all good for you. Just their way loving you is different from your expecting. M)!:o/!c S
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Before Mothers' Day, I am writing this just want to tell mother I love her, even though I never speak it out, but please believe, not to speak it out doesn't means I don't love her, I keep this love in my heart. \^%5!
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Ps. I hope many many years later, when my mother is old, we are all around her, and she looks at us with a proud heart and says to us:" The happiest thing in my all life is owning you." ~+Da`Wp
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